I
was talking with a good friend today about work, and we were sharing stories
about other friends we know who are having a hard time on the job right now, because
their bosses are not very nice people and they’re even worse bosses.
The
conversation reminded me of another conversation
I’d had a long time ago, more than twenty years earlier, in fact. During that
conver-sation, I’d been confiding to a former supervisor, a physician, about a lousy work experience I was having, and I’ll never forget
what he said. He told me that it sounded like I was working for a sick company.
I
thought that was funny, and I laughed. But this former supervisor of mine wanted me
to know that he wasn’t merely suggesting I might be working with a few “off”
people. He told me that just like an individual can be sick, an organization can
be sick. At the time, I was an editor and this physician was a clinician and
researcher. Years later, I’d transition into human resources, and he would
found an executive coaching company. I think about this and it occurs to me
that his statement was something I really needed to hear and would have an impact
far beyond the job I had at the time, and he, it turns out, was someone uniquely
qualified to say what I needed to hear, and that pleases me.
So,
I thought about Dr. Siegler’s comment when talking with my friend and about how
it makes me sad that there are so many people who just hate their jobs and for
all the right reasons. I’m talking about someone who hates his job because his
boss makes him feel small, useless, or invisible. I’m talking about someone who
hates his job because his boss is a yeller, manipulator, power monger, liar, or
bully. Someone he can’t trust. Someone who most assuredly does not have his
best interests at heart. Someone he has to guard against, instead of looking to
for assistance, encouragement, and direction. And the truly alarming part is,
when this behavior occurs in a sick, or dysfunctional, workplace, the issue is
not the bad behavior of one individual. Instead, the issue is whole patterns of
behavior that are replicated and tolerated, if not actually encouraged,
throughout the organization. And it just drives me crazy that very few leaders
seem to give a rat’s behind what’s happening on their watch. Putting aside for
the moment the fact that productivity, morale, and mission is being compromised,
people are being hurt, and it’s
wrong.
The
good news is that there is help for
what ails these organizations. There are plenty of qualified and motivated
coaches, trainers, and consultants to provide insight and practical tips for long-lasting
and meaningful change. Of course, someone in control has to want the help. And
when I read a statistic, such as I did today, that the
United States ranks tenth on the Global Innovation Index, behind Singapore
and Denmark, I can’t help wondering when that someone is going to ask for it.
It is sad at the number of people working jobs that literally make them sick because they have no other choice. It is also sad that there is so many bosses out there that let a little power go to their heads and make ppl feel small. I am glad you found someone honest and you are happy!
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Hi TabbyAnn! I couldn't agree with you more. By the way, I liked your piece about discouragement/optimism.
ReplyDeleteI can relate. Years ago, I had a boss who made us all pack up our stuff and play musical offices every few months--as far as I could tell, not to improve productivity but simply because he could. No one spoke up, but this was in the '70s. Today maybe they would.
ReplyDeleteHi Linda. Well, that's a first! I guess there's no limit to the ways a bad boss can frustrate his staff. Thanks for stopping by!
ReplyDeleteCrystal, wow, your posts are the first bit of reality I have read about companies. I have worked in corporate America for over 30 years and I am sick and tired of the fraud, misuse, and mistreatment of employees. I was working at Arthur Anderson when they were indicted and it has left a very bad taste in my mouth. I work for a narsististic boss now and I'm just tired. I Love what I do and I'm very good at my work - why is it so hard to be able to do my work well in these dysfunctional organizations?
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